This blog has been treated several times for “elegance”, not just when wearing men’s wedding suits, but also in the attitudes and behaviors of a person.
This post is dedicated to the second kind of elegance mentioned: the elegance of the soul, inner beauty, the simplicity of a gaze that can convey happiness. The theme of inner beauty has been treated several times in the literature, and all the novels or poems that speak of this subject are geared to give precedence to the inner beauty on the exterior one.
And more, the Indian mystic Ashtavakra, compared to a camel because crippled in 8 parts of the body. Despite its ugliness on the outside, he managed to silence an entire room full of philosophers and experts who laughed at him with a simple joke, earning the respect of Emperor of India and winning the prize for the competition held.
Men, when wearing their wedding suits are not only grooms, but they are representing the ideals of loyalty, undying love and generosity. There is no use to be flawless on the outside if you are not devoted to your beloved in your heart, and you can not hide a bad soul: they are feelings that transpire from the eyes.
The world of today lives with the obsession of perfect image, it’s full of stereotypes which complex young people and make them feel inadequate because different from the models proposed on TV or on the internet. The youth of today think that if you are not beautiful on the outside by now you can not get anywhere, and spend all their time to the search for external perfection, not realizing that they are dying inside.
The world of aesthetic brings down the world of values, and can exist how a strong marriage and that can last a lifetime if values in the world are put after a plastic surgeon? People have to think back that you should not look like the models seen on TV to be worthy of consideration; and that, even if you owned a beauty like this, if we do not take care of our spirit, it will still die before being appreciated.
Man, with his studies and his inventions, can radically change the physical appearance of a person only by undergoing surgery. As far a man can study and innovate, there is one thing that man can never create: human dignity. We are so identified with the periphery of our being that we have forgotten that the periphery can not exist by itself. There has to be a center.
A man with dignity is a man who has the grace in his eyes, of inner light he shines and stands out much more than a beautiful man, but empty. We must not yield to the compromises imposed by society or, in any case, you should not live your life based only on those. The care of your image is synonymous with self-love, which becomes harmful when flows into selfishness or conceit.
Men’s wedding suits are not the symbol of inner beauty
Your woman is marrying you because you are exactly like this: beautiful and unique in your own particularity, which should not be considered as defects. Woman also often suffer because of these impossible benchmarks with models size 38 always perfect in every photo.
A man dressed in a formal dress is always very elegant, whatever physical shape he has. Consider, for example, Luciano Pavarotti: man evidently overweight but with a so light and good voice that came from the soul; he has embodied the the model of elegant and refined man for years, even if he has never had washboard abs.